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February 12, 2025
Many years ago, I was actively buying and selling off Playstation 3 games. There was an active...
February 5, 2025
It has been 19 years since my dad passed from ALS. Since then, it took a lot of processing,...
I used to receive messages like these all the time back then when I was actively writing: For...
November 5, 2024
In working for my little fashion brand, One Dude Listening, I suffer so much from imposter...
November 4, 2024
Some time back, a person owed me money. It was truly an angry period in my life as I got...
November 1, 2024
Many years ago, I got cheated on by my then girlfriend. I was upset of course. It hurt too. ...
October 30, 2024
BOOM! No time for gender politics. Let's just drink!
October 29, 2024
Eat that sinful shit.Day drink.Take more than one vacation a year.Show up.Or don't show up.Ask...
October 28, 2024
Just like how I wrote here everyone's drive is equal, everyone's busyness is the same. For...
October 25, 2024
A friend told me this when encouraging me. I found it very profound and amazing. He's someone...
In the realm of mental health, the trite advice is always to "reach out to someone." Here, I...
October 23, 2024
"I was so angry. I swear I'd have killed him! But... I am glad I've never gotten in trouble with...
October 22, 2024
It's funny how even though you may feel depressed, lost, directionless and like you don't know...
October 21, 2024
And admit that they fucked up. It sounds simple enough, but it's sadly uncommon or even rare...
I heard this brilliant quote from a TikTok video recently. What more, it was narrated by an AI...
October 17, 2024
. Busy being a badge of honor. This is the baseline for not being accountable as an adult today...
October 16, 2024
Sometimes a cry for help is totally silent. Because there is so much to say yet so little. ...
I've had a couple of friends come up to me and say, "It took me a few days, but I decided that I...
October 7, 2024
For some reason when I shared this on Facebook, simply because I thought it was romantic and...
July 23, 2024
Imagine 9/11 again. The planes have crashed into the towers. They have not collapsed. There...